Want to know how to dress like a powerful man? Start here: people decide how much authority you have before you open your mouth – and most of that decision comes from what you’re wearing.
By dressing well, you convey status to those around you. You create a magnetic aura that gives you leadership over the room. Everyone follows the man that brings the most power – they follow the alpha.
So your next question is – how do you become the alpha male?
That’s what power dressing is for. What follows are 10 tips on how to dress like a powerful man – plus a bonus most guys overlook.
You will learn:
- Buy Yourself A “Power Suit”
- Wear A Great Looking Watch
- Focus On Fit
- Don’t Forget The Details
- Buy A Signature Scent
- Upgrade Your Shoes
- Take Care Of Your Body
- Understand Your Body Language
- Use Style To Command Confidence
- Know How To Break The Rules
- Bonus-Surround Yourself With The Right People
What Is Power Dressing – And Does It Actually Work?
Power dressing is choosing your clothes on purpose so they signal competence and authority before you speak. The term took off in the late ’70s and ’80s with big-shouldered business suits, but the idea is much older. Every uniform, every judge’s robe, every general’s stars works the same way.
So does it work? The research says yes – and not only on the people looking at you. Here are the studies I keep coming back to:
- Formal clothes change how you think. In a 2015 study, people wearing more formal clothes thought in bigger-picture, more abstract terms – and they did it because the clothes made them feel more powerful. Here’s my breakdown of how formal attire affects the way you think.
- Clothes hand you authority. When researchers showed people photos of doctors, the ones in casual clothes scored lowest on authority. A white coat raised it, and formal dress made them look friendlier too. More on clothing and authority.
- Feeling powerful gets you the job. Applicants who spent a few minutes writing about a time they felt powerful were accepted 68% of the time in face-to-face interviews – versus 47% for applicants who wrote nothing and 26% for those who wrote about feeling powerless. That’s why I want you to feel powerful in your clothes, not just look it.
- Black can backfire. A man dressed in black was rated more aggressive than the same man in grey – with no gain in how respectable he looked. It’s one reason I steer most guys toward navy and charcoal. Here’s the study on wearing black.
Notice what none of these studies needed? A big price tag. Fit, formality and color did the work – and you control all three.
Want to know where you stand right now? Take the 90-second audit below, then jump to the tip your result points you to.
#rmrs-quiz-power
–rmrs-navy: #14253c;
–rmrs-charcoal: #2a2a2a;
–rmrs-cream: #f7f3ec;
–rmrs-paper: #ffffff;
–rmrs-gold: #b8893a;
–rmrs-gold-soft: #e9d9b8;
–rmrs-line: #e3dccd;
–rmrs-muted: #6b6b6b;
–rmrs-shadow: 0 12px 40px rgba(20, 37, 60, 0.10);
font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, “Segoe UI”, Roboto, “Helvetica Neue”, Arial, sans-serif;
color: var(–rmrs-charcoal);
max-width: 720px;
margin: 28px auto;
background: var(–rmrs-cream);
border-radius: 14px;
box-shadow: var(–rmrs-shadow);
overflow: hidden;
box-sizing: border-box;
text-align: left;
#rmrs-quiz-power *, #rmrs-quiz-power *::before, #rmrs-quiz-power *::after box-sizing: border-box;
#rmrs-quiz-power p, #rmrs-quiz-power h2, #rmrs-quiz-power h3 text-transform: none; letter-spacing: normal;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-header
background: var(–rmrs-navy);
color: var(–rmrs-cream);
padding: 28px 28px 22px;
text-align: center;
border-bottom: 3px solid var(–rmrs-gold);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-eyebrow
font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 2.5px; text-transform: uppercase;
color: var(–rmrs-gold-soft); margin: 0 0 8px; font-weight: 600;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-title
font-family: Georgia, “Times New Roman”, serif;
font-size: 28px; line-height: 1.2; margin: 0 0 6px; color: #fff; font-weight: 700;
border: none; padding: 0; background: none;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-sub margin: 0 auto; max-width: 480px; font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5; color: var(–rmrs-gold-soft); opacity: 0.9;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-progress-wrap padding: 18px 28px 0; background: var(–rmrs-paper);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-progress-meta
display: flex; justify-content: space-between; align-items: center;
font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; text-transform: uppercase;
color: var(–rmrs-muted); margin-bottom: 8px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-progress-bar height: 6px; background: var(–rmrs-line); border-radius: 3px; overflow: hidden;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-progress-fill height: 100%; width: 0%; background: var(–rmrs-gold); transition: width 0.4s ease;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-body padding: 28px; background: var(–rmrs-paper); min-height: 320px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-question
font-family: Georgia, “Times New Roman”, serif;
font-size: 22px; line-height: 1.35; color: var(–rmrs-navy); margin: 0 0 22px; font-weight: 700;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-options display: flex; flex-direction: column; gap: 10px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-option
width: 100%; text-align: left; background: var(–rmrs-paper);
border: 1.5px solid var(–rmrs-line); color: var(–rmrs-charcoal);
padding: 14px 18px; border-radius: 8px; font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.45;
cursor: pointer; transition: border-color 0.15s, background 0.15s, transform 0.05s;
font-family: inherit; font-weight: 400; text-transform: none; letter-spacing: normal;
box-shadow: none; margin: 0; min-height: 0; height: auto; white-space: normal;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-option:hover border-color: var(–rmrs-gold); background: #fdfaf3; color: var(–rmrs-charcoal);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-option:active transform: scale(0.99);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-option.selected border-color: var(–rmrs-gold); background: #fdf6e7;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-option:focus-visible, #rmrs-quiz-power .rq-btn:focus-visible,
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-cta-start:focus-visible, #rmrs-quiz-power .rq-next-link:focus-visible,
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-btn:focus-visible, #rmrs-quiz-power .rq-restart:focus-visible
outline: 2px solid var(–rmrs-gold); outline-offset: 2px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-nav
display: flex; justify-content: space-between; align-items: center;
margin-top: 22px; padding-top: 18px; border-top: 1px solid var(–rmrs-line);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-btn
font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; text-transform: uppercase;
font-weight: 600; padding: 11px 22px; border-radius: 6px; cursor: pointer; border: none;
transition: opacity 0.15s, transform 0.05s; box-shadow: none; margin: 0; line-height: 1.2;
display: inline-flex; align-items: center; justify-content: center;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-btn-primary background: var(–rmrs-navy); color: var(–rmrs-cream);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-btn-primary:hover opacity: 0.92; background: var(–rmrs-navy); color: var(–rmrs-cream);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-btn-primary:disabled background: #c4c4c4; color: #fff; cursor: not-allowed;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-btn-ghost background: transparent; color: var(–rmrs-muted); padding: 11px 14px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-btn-ghost:hover color: var(–rmrs-navy); background: transparent;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-btn-ghost:disabled visibility: hidden;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-arrow-icon
display: inline-block; width: 16px; height: 16px;
margin-left: 6px; flex: 0 0 16px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-arrow-left margin-left: 0; margin-right: 6px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-arrow-icon svg width: 100%; height: 100%; display: block;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-intro, #rmrs-quiz-power .rq-result text-align: center;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-intro h2
font-family: Georgia, serif; color: var(–rmrs-navy); font-size: 28px; line-height: 1.25; margin: 0 0 12px;
border: none; padding: 0; background: none;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-intro p
font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.6; color: var(–rmrs-charcoal);
margin: 0 auto 16px; max-width: 520px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-stats
display: flex; justify-content: center; gap: 28px; margin: 18px 0 22px; flex-wrap: wrap;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-stat text-align: center;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-stat-num
font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 26px; font-weight: 700;
color: var(–rmrs-gold); line-height: 1;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-stat-label
font-size: 11px; text-transform: uppercase; letter-spacing: 1.5px;
color: var(–rmrs-muted); margin-top: 4px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-cta-start
display: inline-flex; align-items: center; justify-content: center;
background: var(–rmrs-gold); color: #fff; padding: 14px 32px;
border: none; border-radius: 6px; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 2px; line-height: 1.2;
text-transform: uppercase; font-weight: 700; cursor: pointer; box-shadow: none; margin: 0;
transition: background 0.15s, transform 0.05s; font-family: inherit;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-cta-start:hover background: #a07730; color: #fff;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-cta-start:active transform: scale(0.98);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-result-eyebrow
font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 2.5px; text-transform: uppercase;
color: var(–rmrs-gold); font-weight: 700; margin: 0 0 8px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-badge width: 96px; height: 96px; margin: 6px auto 14px; display: block;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-result-type
font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 38px; color: var(–rmrs-navy);
margin: 0 0 8px; font-weight: 700; line-height: 1.1;
border: none; padding: 0; background: none;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-result-tagline
font-family: Georgia, serif; font-style: italic; color: var(–rmrs-charcoal);
font-size: 18px; line-height: 1.45; margin: 0 auto 20px; max-width: 540px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-result-summary
font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.65; color: var(–rmrs-charcoal);
max-width: 560px; margin: 0 auto 24px; text-align: left;
background: var(–rmrs-cream); padding: 16px 20px;
border-left: 3px solid var(–rmrs-gold); border-radius: 4px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-signature
background: var(–rmrs-navy); color: var(–rmrs-cream);
padding: 20px 22px; border-radius: 8px; margin: 0 0 24px; text-align: left;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-sig-label
font-size: 11px; letter-spacing: 2px; text-transform: uppercase;
color: var(–rmrs-gold-soft); margin: 0 0 6px; font-weight: 700;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-sig-text
font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 17px; line-height: 1.5; margin: 0 0 14px; color: var(–rmrs-cream);
#rmrs-quiz-power a.rq-next-link, #rmrs-quiz-power a.rq-next-link:visited
display: inline-flex; align-items: center; justify-content: center;
background: var(–rmrs-gold); color: #fff; padding: 11px 20px;
border-radius: 6px; font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 1.2px; line-height: 1.3;
text-transform: uppercase; font-weight: 700; text-decoration: none; border: none; box-shadow: none;
transition: background 0.15s;
#rmrs-quiz-power a.rq-next-link:hover background: #a07730; color: #fff; text-decoration: none;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share margin: 0 0 16px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-label
font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; text-transform: uppercase;
color: var(–rmrs-muted); margin: 0 0 10px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-buttons
display: flex; justify-content: center; gap: 8px; flex-wrap: wrap;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-btn, #rmrs-quiz-power a.rq-share-btn:visited
padding: 10px 16px; border-radius: 6px; border: none; box-shadow: none; margin: 0;
font-family: inherit; font-size: 13px; font-weight: 600; cursor: pointer; line-height: 1.2;
color: #fff; display: inline-flex; align-items: center; gap: 6px;
text-decoration: none; text-transform: none; letter-spacing: normal;
transition: opacity 0.15s, background 0.15s, transform 0.05s;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-btn:hover opacity: 0.92; color: #fff; text-decoration: none;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-btn:active transform: scale(0.98);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-fb, #rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-fb:hover background: #1877f2;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-fb.copied background: #2c6b3f;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-x, #rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-x:hover background: #000;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-wa, #rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-wa:hover background: #25d366;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-copy, #rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-copy:hover background: #444;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-copy.copied background: #2c6b3f;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-share-note
font-size: 12px; line-height: 1.5; color: var(–rmrs-muted); margin: 10px auto 0;
font-style: italic; max-width: 520px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-result-actions
display: flex; justify-content: center; gap: 10px;
margin-top: 18px; flex-wrap: wrap;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-restart
background: transparent; color: var(–rmrs-muted);
border: 1.5px solid var(–rmrs-line); padding: 12px 22px; border-radius: 6px;
font-size: 13px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; text-transform: uppercase; font-weight: 600; line-height: 1.2;
cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit; box-shadow: none; margin: 0;
transition: border-color 0.15s, color 0.15s;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-restart:hover border-color: var(–rmrs-navy); color: var(–rmrs-navy); background: transparent;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-footer
text-align: center; font-size: 11px; letter-spacing: 1px;
color: var(–rmrs-muted); padding: 14px;
border-top: 1px solid var(–rmrs-line); background: var(–rmrs-cream);
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-footer a color: var(–rmrs-navy); text-decoration: none; font-weight: 600; border: none;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-fade-in animation: rqpFadeIn 0.35s ease;
@keyframes rqpFadeIn
from opacity: 0; transform: translateY(8px);
to opacity: 1; transform: translateY(0);
@media (prefers-reduced-motion: reduce)
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-fade-in animation: none;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-progress-fill transition: none;
@media (max-width: 560px)
#rmrs-quiz-power margin: 16px 0; border-radius: 10px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-header padding: 22px 16px 18px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-title font-size: 23px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-progress-wrap padding: 14px 16px 0;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-body padding: 22px 16px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-question font-size: 19px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-option font-size: 14px; padding: 12px 14px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-result-type font-size: 30px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-result-tagline font-size: 16px;
#rmrs-quiz-power .rq-stats gap: 18px;
Real Men Real Style
The Power Wardrobe Audit
7 quick questions. Find out what your clothes say about you before you open your mouth.
(function ()
“use strict”;
var root = document.getElementById(“rmrs-quiz-power”);
if (!root
var BLOG_URL = “https://www.realmenrealstyle.com/alpha-male-power-symbols/”;
var QUIZ_NAME = “Power Wardrobe Audit”;
var TYPES =
commander:
name: “The Commander”,
headline: “Your clothes already read as power.”,
verdict: “You’re dressing the way authority actually looks — fit first, quiet details, nothing begging for attention. People notice you before they notice anything you’re wearing. That’s the whole point.”,
nextMove: “Sharpen the details — monograms, surgeon cuffs, a signature scent. At your level, the small stuff is what separates you from the next well-dressed man in the room.”,
linkText: “Tip #4: Don’t Forget The Details”,
linkHref: “#t4″,
badge: ”
,
almost:
name: “Almost There”,
headline: “You own the right pieces. The fit and upkeep are letting you down.”,
verdict: “You’ve spent the money — the problem is what happens after you buy it. A great jacket that’s boxy in the shoulder reads as borrowed, and scuffed shoes cancel out a sharp suit. You’re closer than you think.”,
nextMove: “Find a tailor and fix fit before you buy anything new. Then polish your shoes and replace that tired strap — cheap fixes, big return.”,
linkText: “Tip #3: Focus On Fit”,
linkHref: “#t3″,
badge: ”
,
invisible:
name: “The Invisible Man”,
headline: “Nothing’s wrong — and that’s the problem.”,
verdict: “Safe clothes keep you out of trouble, but they also keep you out of the conversation. Grey, beige, a polo, clean sneakers — nobody objects, and nobody remembers. Power dressing starts with being seen.”,
nextMove: “Build one dark, well-fitted power suit and add one controlled accent color. One outfit that makes people look twice changes how the whole room reads you.”,
linkText: “Tip #1: Buy Yourself A Power Suit”,
linkHref: “#t1″,
badge: ”
,
tryhard:
name: “The Try-Hard”,
headline: “Your clothes are talking louder than you are.”,
verdict: “Loud logos and stacked statement pieces read as someone trying to prove something. Powerful men dress simply — they don’t need the label to do the talking. Right now people are noticing the brand, not the man.”,
nextMove: “Strip back to one statement piece per outfit. Keep the best watch or the best shoes — not both — and let everything else go quiet.”,
linkText: “Why Powerful Men Dress Simply”,
linkHref: “https://www.realmenrealstyle.com/why-powerful-men-dress-simply/”,
badge: ”
;
var state = step: -1, answers: [], scores: emptyScores() ;
var bodyEl = root.querySelector(“.rq-body”);
var progressWrap = root.querySelector(“.rq-progress-wrap”);
var progressFill = root.querySelector(“.rq-progress-fill”);
var progressLabel = root.querySelector(“.rq-progress-label”);
var progressPercent = root.querySelector(“.rq-progress-percent”);
function $(sel) return bodyEl.querySelector(sel);
function copyToClipboard(text)
var fallback = function ()
var ta = document.createElement(“textarea”);
ta.value = text;
ta.setAttribute(“readonly”, “”);
ta.style.position = “absolute”;
ta.style.left = “-9999px”;
document.body.appendChild(ta);
ta.select();
try document.execCommand(“copy”); catch (e)
document.body.removeChild(ta);
;
if (navigator.clipboard && navigator.clipboard.writeText)
try navigator.clipboard.writeText(text).catch(fallback);
catch (e) fallback();
else
fallback();
function scrollToTop()
var r = root.getBoundingClientRect();
if (r.top < 0 && root.scrollIntoView)
try root.scrollIntoView( behavior: "smooth", block: "start" ); catch (e) root.scrollIntoView(true);
function renderIntro()
progressWrap.style.display = "none";
bodyEl.innerHTML =
'
‘
People Size You Up Before You Say a Word.
‘ +
‘
Most men think power dressing means spending more. It doesn\’t — it comes down to fit, restraint, and upkeep. Answer for what\’s actually in your closet, not what you wish was in there, and you\’ll know exactly where you stand.
‘ +
‘
‘
‘ +
‘
‘ +
‘
‘ +
‘
‘ +
‘‘ +
‘
‘;
$(“.rq-cta-start”).addEventListener(“click”, startQuiz);
function startQuiz()
state.step = 0;
state.answers = [];
state.scores = emptyScores();
progressWrap.style.display = “block”;
renderQuestion();
function updateProgress()
var total = QUESTIONS.length;
var current = state.step + 1;
var pct = Math.round((current – 1) / total * 100);
progressFill.style.width = pct + “%”;
progressLabel.textContent = “Question ” + current + ” of ” + total;
progressPercent.textContent = pct + “%”;
function addScores(opt, sign)
Object.keys(opt.scores).forEach(function (k) 0) + sign * opt.scores[k];
);
function removeAnswerScore(stepIdx)
var prior = state.answers[stepIdx];
if (!prior) return;
addScores(QUESTIONS[stepIdx].options[prior.optionIndex], -1);
state.answers[stepIdx] = undefined;
function renderQuestion()
updateProgress();
var q = QUESTIONS[state.step];
var prior = state.answers[state.step];
var optionsHTML = q.options.map(function (opt, i)
var sel = prior && prior.optionIndex === i;
return ‘“;
).join(“”);
var isLast = state.step === QUESTIONS.length – 1;
var nextLabel = isLast ? (“See My Verdict” + ARROW_RIGHT) : (“Next” + ARROW_RIGHT);
bodyEl.innerHTML =
‘
‘
‘ + q.q + “
” +
‘
” +
‘
‘‘ +
‘” +
‘
‘ +
‘
‘;
var optionBtns = bodyEl.querySelectorAll(“.rq-option”);
var nextBtn = $(“.rq-next”);
var selectedIndex = prior ? prior.optionIndex : null;
if (selectedIndex !== null) nextBtn.disabled = false;
Array.prototype.forEach.call(optionBtns, function (btn)
btn.addEventListener(“click”, function ()
Array.prototype.forEach.call(optionBtns, function (b)
b.classList.remove(“selected”);
b.setAttribute(“aria-pressed”, “false”);
);
btn.classList.add(“selected”);
btn.setAttribute(“aria-pressed”, “true”);
selectedIndex = parseInt(btn.getAttribute(“data-i”), 10);
nextBtn.disabled = false;
);
);
$(“.rq-back”).addEventListener(“click”, function ()
if (state.step === 0) return;
state.step -= 1;
renderQuestion();
);
nextBtn.addEventListener(“click”, function ()
if (selectedIndex === null) return;
removeAnswerScore(state.step);
addScores(q.options[selectedIndex], 1);
state.answers[state.step] = qIndex: state.step, optionIndex: selectedIndex ;
if (state.step === QUESTIONS.length – 1)
progressFill.style.width = “100%”;
progressLabel.textContent = “Complete”;
progressPercent.textContent = “100%”;
renderResult();
else
state.step += 1;
renderQuestion();
);
function renderResult()
progressWrap.style.display = “none”;
var winner = determineWinner(state.scores);
var t = TYPES[winner];
var shareText = “I just took the ” + QUIZ_NAME + ” — turns out I’m ” + (winner === “almost” ? “\”Almost There\”” : t.name) + “. What’s yours?”;
var shareUrl = BLOG_URL;
var fbCaption = shareText + ” Take it: ” + shareUrl;
var fbHref = “https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=” + encodeURIComponent(shareUrl);
var xHref = “https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=” + encodeURIComponent(shareUrl) + “&text=” + encodeURIComponent(shareText);
var waHref = “https://api.whatsapp.com/send?text=” + encodeURIComponent(shareText + ” ” + shareUrl);
var external = t.linkHref.charAt(0) !== “#”;
bodyEl.innerHTML =
‘
‘
Your Wardrobe Verdict
‘ +
” + t.badge + ” +
‘
‘ + t.name + “
” +
‘
‘ + t.headline + “
” +
‘
” +
‘
‘ +
‘
‘
‘ +
‘
‘ +
‘
‘ +
‘
‘ +
‘
‘‘ +
‘
‘ +
‘
‘;
scrollToTop();
$(“.rq-restart”).addEventListener(“click”, function ()
state.step = -1;
renderIntro();
scrollToTop();
);
$(“.rq-share-copy”).addEventListener(“click”, function ()
var btn = this;
copyToClipboard(shareUrl);
btn.textContent = “Copied!”;
btn.classList.add(“copied”);
setTimeout(function ()
btn.textContent = “Copy Link”;
btn.classList.remove(“copied”);
, 2000);
);
$(“.rq-share-fb”).addEventListener(“click”, function ()
var btn = this;
copyToClipboard(fbCaption);
btn.textContent = “Caption copied — opening Facebook…”;
btn.classList.add(“copied”);
setTimeout(function ()
window.open(fbHref, “_blank”, “noopener,noreferrer,width=626,height=436”);
, 350);
setTimeout(function ()
btn.textContent = “Share on Facebook”;
btn.classList.remove(“copied”);
, 4000);
);
renderIntro();
})();
Tip To Look Powerful #1 Buy Yourself A “Power Suit”
A great deal of respect and authority comes with a dark, well-fitted suit. A suit enhances the masculine V-shape, conveys status, and looks disciplined and put together.

It’s almost ingrained in our society to look at one’s suit and give that man more time and attention. A power suit means a leg up in job interviews, presentations, or other professional occasions.
Here’s an example of an outfit that’s flattering to the majority of gentlemen:
- A solid dark, classic style suit (either charcoal gray or navy)
- A light-colored dress shirt (ideally white)
- A tie of a deeper hue and a simple, repeating pattern.
- Dress shoes that are either black (for charcoal gray suits) or dark brown (for navy suits)
This outfit will keep the focus on you and what you bring to the table instead of being too flashy and distracting.
What makes a suit a “power suit”?

A power suit isn’t a special garment. It’s a regular suit that gets five things right:
- Dark, solid color. Navy or charcoal. Both read as serious in any boardroom on earth, and both flatter nearly every complexion.
- Structured shoulders. A little padding and a clean shoulder line build the V-shape people read as strength. Soft, unstructured jackets are great on the weekend – not when you need authority.
- A suppressed waist. The jacket should come in at your natural waist. That taper is what separates a power suit from a boxy rental.
- The right lapel. Notch lapels are the safe default. Peak lapels and double-breasted jackets make a stronger statement because they pull the eye up and out toward your shoulders.
- Fit that looks made for you. The jacket covers your seat, the sleeves show about a half-inch of shirt cuff, and the trousers have little or no break.
Now apply those rules to YOUR frame. This is where most guys go wrong – they copy the suit, not the proportions.
- Inverted triangle (broad shoulders, narrow waist): skip the heavy padding. A natural shoulder lets your build do the work without making you look like a linebacker in costume.
- Rectangle (shoulders and waist about the same width): you want structure in the shoulder and a suppressed waist. Together they build the V-shape you don’t have naturally.
- Triangle or oval (wider through the middle): stay single-breasted with one or two buttons and a deep V opening. Dark solids pull the eye up to your face. Double-breasted adds bulk right where you don’t want it.
- Trapezoid (broad shoulders, slightly narrower waist): most cuts work on you. Keep it clean and let fit carry the look.
Buy a custom-made suit
The ultimate luxuries in fashion are clothes made FOR YOU. They look, feel and fit exactly how you want them. They represent the best and most authentic version of you.
Custom clothing is about controlling your whole image; you wear them to stand out and distinguish yourself from others in the room. They evoke positive reactions, send the right messages, and give you the confidence and drive to go from good to GREAT. This effect is known as enclothed cognition.
The three major things to customize are fit, fabric and function. You have to know your body type and find the different measurements for your physique. You’ll need all the info before going to see your tailor. That’s where it also helps to listen to the expert’s advice and ideas so you can see things from another angle.

Save up for quality clothing
You’ve probably seen something you’ve fallen in love with. Perhaps it’s a watch, a jacket, or a pair of shoes. You knew it was everything you wanted until you saw the price tag.
Then, you compromised and got something cheaper that was just OK; but you still wonder about that epic piece you missed out on.
Gentlemen, if you see something you love, buy it.
I’m not saying to spend frivolously. I’m saying to set realistic saving goals and work toward buying that garment.
Spending more may feel risky initially, but you’ll feel amazing in what you wear. Your closet should be about quality, not quantity. You should feel empowered by every piece in your wardrobe.
You’ll love what you have on, and it’ll show. People will notice you and the confidence that you carry.
Tip To Look Powerful #2 Wear A Great Looking Watch
A watch is a classic staple in a man’s arsenal.
From Patrick Bateman to James Bond, nothing finishes a great look like a quality timepiece.
There are two key men’s watch types: automatic and quartz.

An automatic is powered by the motion of your wrist – a mechanical movement backed by centuries of watchmaking tradition, and the one purists prefer. A quartz runs on a battery – accurate, low-maintenance, and looked down on by enthusiasts more than it deserves.
For power dressing, the style matters more than the movement. A slim dress watch on a leather strap, or a simple steel watch on a bracelet, sized to your wrist, reads as a man in control. An oversized, logo-heavy piece reads as a man trying to prove something. If you want the full breakdown of which watch works as a status symbol – and why you don’t need to spend thousands – see my list of male status symbols.
Click here to discover how to match your watch to your outfit.
Tip To Look Powerful #3 Focus On Fit

When you are wearing clothes that fit you the way they are supposed to, it sends the message that you are concerned with attention to detail and aware of your body and what it needs.
Garments that are too big send a message that you are self-conscious of your body and don’t accentuate your best features. Garments that are too small may make you feel like you put on weight or cannot afford something that fits.
Dress for your body type

Which of these shapes do you think describes your upper body type best?
- Rectangle
- Triangle
- Trapezoid
- Oval
- Inverted Triangle
Why is this important?
It’s what makes YOU look your best. It’s what compliments your body. What makes you attractive. It doesn’t matter how much you spend on custom-tailored clothing if you buy for the triangle body type when you are a rectangle.
For example, say you fall into the category inverted triangle, broad shoulders by nature, and a very tight waist. Polo shirts, henleys, and de-structured jackets will be your best friends. They will fit your broad shoulders while not losing your figure at the waist. You have the nice V-shape, accentuate it and make it work for you!
The important thing you want to do before approaching a tailor is this – be aware of your body type before entering the atelier. You may not know anything about what’s best to wear or not. But being aware of it will allow you to work around it together with an expert.
This brings us to our next point. Very important when talking about the relationship with a tailor – honesty.
Get yourself a tailor
There’s no fooling your tailor.
You’re talking to someone who’s dressed thousands of men in his life, men with different ideas of style, different shapes, and years of knowledge and experience.
You may be well-informed about fashion but always be open to the expert’s ideas. They will see things from a different perspective and give you suggestions to best suit you.
Few things will be more valuable to you than a talented and knowledgeable tailor you can trust and depend on to make sure you are always looking your best.
Tip To Look Powerful #4 Don’t Forget The Details
Monograms
Nothing says power like personalization. Monograms are usually a distinguishing factor of bespoke clothing and the finishing touch on your tailor-made garments.
If you cannot afford to get a shirt or suit custom-made, you can still achieve the look by getting off-the-rack items tailored. Again, the cherry on top will still be a monogram. This level of personalization can give you the same satisfaction as if the piece was bespoke. For the monogram to give off that classy vibe, there are a few rules to keep in mind:
You want to make sure that your monogram is in an inconspicuous place. For shirts, the signet should be one of the following:
- Sleeve cuff
- Sleeve gauntlet
- Placket bottom
Different areas are customary for jackets. They are
- Inside jacket flap (usually where the tag or inside pocket is)
- Under the collar
If the monogram is in a position other than these expected positions, you might come across as trying too hard. It also might make you look like someone uneducated about the conventions of style – and it won’t fare well for your power index.
Pocket squares

These serve as small but effective add-ons to your blazer or suit. Keep in mind that pocket squares are NOT handkerchiefs. They’re sophisticated decorations that highlight a man’s eye for detail. If you know how to fold a pocket square, you’ll look more dashing and start many great conversations.
Surgeon cuffs
These are jacket cuffs with functioning buttons.
A gent who has a jacket constructed in this manner is communicating that he pays attention to detail and has an affinity for the classicism of menswear. Generally, high-end brands use this style convention in their designs.
Tip To Look Powerful #5 Buy A Signature Scent
What can a fragrance do for you? Boost your confidence, get you compliments, get you noticed, and draw in the ladies. Most importantly, they can be an extension of your personality. Smell is a powerful tool. It can boost your confidence, induce aromatherapy, and even trigger fond memories associated with the scent.
Most of all, it can make people notice you.
How many should you own? It depends on your budget and your goals. You could buy 4-5 inexpensive fragrances for the price of one designer bottle and parcel them by occasion. Then again, you could also spend that money on one signature fragrance.
The most versatile fragrances include Dior Sauvage, Bleu de Chanel, and Acqua di Giò Parfum.
Tip To Look Powerful #6 Upgrade Your Shoes
If your goal is to make power moves and get compliments, there’s no better way to do it than with some bold shoes. Much like a watch or a fragrance, the shoes you wear will draw attention – What sort of attention depends solely on you.

Shoes have as much artistry and history behind them as any piece of menswear – which means you have options.
Some of the best upgrades for you to make a statement include the dress boot over your basic Oxford, a double monk-strap over your basic brogue, and a Chelsea boot over your basic sneaker.
Tip To Look Powerful #7 Take Care Of Your Body
I’m not talking about just going to the gym and getting in great shape – although looking fit will raise your status in almost any room.
I’m talking about a body by design: a body built for the life you actually live. Clothes hang on a frame, so give them a good one. Stand tall, keep your waist trim enough that a jacket can taper to it, and build enough through the shoulders to fill out the suit. Then tell your tailor where you’re headed. If you plan to drop 20 pounds this year, he’ll cut with that in mind instead of fitting you twice.
Tip To Look Powerful #8 Understand Your Body Language
Body language is non-verbal communication that includes posture, gestures, and the movements you make. It’s just as vital as verbal communication, but it’s usually something you don’t think about when you’re talking or presenting.
No matter how engaging or interesting a speech is, if the speaker gives off negative body language signals, the audience is less likely to listen to what they’re saying. Similarly, suppose you’re having a conversation with someone, and your body language is disengaged. In that case, it might appear as though you’re disinterested in what they have to say – even though you’re listening.
Realize the importance of a firm handshake

In the same vein as a power stance, an exertion of physical strength is a good indicator of perceived or actual clout. By definition, handshakes should be firm.
But how firm is too firm; how soft is too soft?
The Journal of Personality and Social Psychology published a study that everyone should pay close attention to their handshake. A soft handshake could be considered weak, and that you lack confidence, which doesn’t translate well with employers and business associates.
On the opposite end of the scale, you shouldn’t try to break the other person’s hand.
The perfect, firm handshake, looks like this:
- Good posture
- Eye contact – shows focus.
- Use your right hand – the old standard rule from medieval days when gentlemen would check for knives up each other’s sleeves.
- Light yet firm squeeze – Asserts that you are present.
- Hold the grip for two seconds – Any longer, and you look desperate and weird.
- Smile and have a pleasant disposition – This shows that you’re not a jerk.
- Call the other person by name – If you are meeting someone for the first time and saying their name, repeat it back to them. For example. “Hi, I’m Kevin.” “Nice to meet you, Kevin; I’m Antonio.” Doing this shows confidence and an asserted dominance that’s commanding but not overpowering.
Pay attention to your posture
Good posture is a cornerstone of the alpha male mentality. When you see a man standing straight, you immediately think he’s powerful and has his sh*t together. Slouching, head forward? You think he’s weak (even though he probably isn’t).
Taller men are usually more desired, more respected, and more likely to attract people than those who slouch and make themselves look more petite. An alpha doesn’t slink away from people or a situation; lousy posture gives the impression that you are avoiding attention.
Tip To Look Powerful #9 Use Style To Command Confidence
Many of the most successful people in the world got that way through hard work and never quitting. They knew they would make it if they stayed positive and approached the world with the confidence to conquer it.
These are ways you can use your wardrobe to convey confidence to those around you:
Leverage colors and patterns

A simple way to feel great about your ensemble and look powerful is to wear your favorite colors. Colors are not only essential to us on a personal level, but they affect the people that see us.
A 2010 study found that wearing red makes men more attractive to women. It makes men seem more powerful and high-status.
Purple was the preferred color of the Roman emperors. It was a costly dye for thousands of years. Nowadays, it conveys a combination of power and creativity.
Blue tends to represent a sense of freshness. Another way to stand out is to leverage patterns. I wouldn’t go too hard on bright, bold patterns right away, though.

Consider starting with subtle repeating patterns. Houndstooth is a classic pattern on sports jackets. It’s a checked pattern with notched corners that give the appearance of a canine fang.
Herringbone is another worthy option. It’s also called broken twill weave; it’s woven in a chevron shape that causes the overall pattern to resemble fish bones.
Accessories are a safe place to go bold. Take pocket squares, for instance. You can use them to integrate bright colors and patterns without sacrificing the versatility of the core garment. Paisley is a popular pattern used in pocket squares. It’s old as the Sassanian Empire, where it became the Zoroastrian symbol for life.
The point is that there is no shortage of choice when it comes to patterns. It’s one of the easier power moves in men’s style.
Here’s the quick version – the power colors I recommend, what each one says, and where guys get it wrong:
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor *box-sizing:border-box;margin:0;padding:0;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor
–navy:#14213d; –navy2:#1f335c; –cream:#faf6ec; –cream2:#f1e9d6;
–gold:#c9a24b; –ink:#2a2a2a; –line:#e2d7bd;
font-family:-apple-system,BlinkMacSystemFont,”Segoe UI”,Roboto,Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif;
color:var(–ink); max-width:760px; margin:32px auto; padding:0 4px; line-height:1.5;
-webkit-font-smoothing:antialiased;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor .cmp-title
text-align:center; color:var(–navy); font-size:22px; font-weight:800;
letter-spacing:.2px; margin-bottom:4px;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor .cmp-sub
text-align:center; color:#6b6250; font-size:13px; margin-bottom:18px; font-style:italic;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor .cmp-scrolloverflow-x:auto; -webkit-overflow-scrolling:touch;
border-radius:12px; box-shadow:0 6px 22px rgba(20,33,61,.12);
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor table
width:100%; border-collapse:collapse; background:var(–cream);
min-width:560px; font-size:15px; overflow:hidden; border-radius:12px;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor thead th
background:var(–navy); color:#fff; padding:16px 14px; text-align:left;
font-size:16px; font-weight:700; vertical-align:middle; border:none;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor thead th.cmp-attrbackground:var(–navy2); width:18%; font-size:13px;
text-transform:uppercase; letter-spacing:.6px; color:var(–gold);
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor tbody th
background:var(–cream2); color:var(–navy); font-weight:700; text-align:left;
padding:12px 14px; font-size:13px; text-transform:uppercase; letter-spacing:.4px;
border-top:1px solid var(–line); width:18%; vertical-align:top;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor tbody td
padding:12px 14px; border-top:1px solid var(–line); vertical-align:top;
color:var(–ink);
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor tbody td:first-of-typeborder-left:1px solid var(–line);
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor tbody tr:nth-child(even) tdbackground:rgba(201,162,75,.06);
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor .cmp-bottom thbackground:var(–navy); color:var(–gold);
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor .cmp-bottom tdbackground:var(–navy); color:#f4efe2; font-size:14px;
@media(max-width:520px)
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor .cmp-titlefont-size:19px;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor tablefont-size:13.5px;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor thead thpadding:12px 10px; font-size:14px;
#rmrs-cmp-powercolor tbody th,#rmrs-cmp-powercolor tbody tdpadding:10px;
| What it signals | Wear it for | Watch out | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Navy | Trust, steadiness, authority | Interviews, boardrooms, first meetings | Almost nothing. The safest power color there is |
| Charcoal grey | Seriousness, maturity | Negotiations, formal business | Can look flat without a crisp white shirt for contrast |
| Black | Formality and edge, but also aggression | Evening events, black tie | Reads aggressive or funereal in daytime business |
| White (shirt) | Order, cleanliness | Under any suit | Has to be crisp. A dingy white shirt undoes everything |
| Deep red / burgundy | Energy, confidence, attraction | Tie, pocket square, knitwear | A full red suit is a costume. Keep it to one accent |
| Purple | Creativity, old-world royalty | Tie or pocket square | Deep shades read rich. Bright shades read loud |
| Bottom line | Build around navy and charcoal. | Add one accent at a time. | Save black for after dark. |
Tip To Look Powerful #10 Know How To Break The Rules
If you think every rule in the book of style is rigid – time to reshape that point of view. The fact is these “rules” are just guidelines for the most part. You have to realize what your goals are – since fashion is a means to an end.
All style choices should revolve around you. It’s your brand to build, your confidence to grow. You should be the center of attention – not the clothes themselves. So it’s only appropriate to bend or break the rules in a way that benefits you.
It can be something as simple as a suit that’s not all buttoned up, making you appear more relaxed and less uptight. Or maybe you’re exploring colors for your day-to-day outfit. Back in the day, society viewed a colorful ensemble as less masculine. Nowadays – color is simply color. Feel free to combine colors and stay secure about your manliness.
It’s good to be bold with personal style – provided you’re well-aware of your audience, environment, and underlying message. There’s a fine line between being edgy and going off the rails.
How To Dress Like A Powerful Man Without A Suit

Most of you don’t wear a suit five days a week. I don’t either. The good news is the same rules carry over.
Swap the suit for a structured sport coat, or an overshirt with a clean shoulder line. Keep the palette dark and simple. Wear leather shoes or boots instead of running shoes. Pick one quality piece – the watch or the shoes – as your statement, and make sure everything fits like it was cut for you. These are the same masculine style moves that command respect in a boardroom.
A navy knit polo, grey trousers, brown suede Chelsea boots and a steel watch will out-power a wrinkled suit every single day.
BONUS Tip To Look Powerful – Surround Yourself With The Right People
The people around you can override almost every other tip in this article. Picture a short, unfriendly-looking guy who doesn’t stand out in a crowd – until he walks in surrounded by people everyone wants to talk to. Suddenly you don’t think “average guy.” You think he’s rich, or famous, or both.

Who you date, who you marry, the friends you keep, all of that can affect your status. You can tell an alpha male by the people he chooses to surround himself with. It’s the most powerful of all the status symbols a man can have – and the one money can’t buy.
This doesn’t mean ditching your friends but to think about the person you’re spending the most time with – often your partner. Do these people elevate you, or do they keep you back at the starting line?
The art of commanding power lies in several factors. They range from minor adjustments to your clothing to significant changes in the way you speak and move.
The bottom line is that once you learn the essential skills, others will take notice. Epitomizing masculinity doesn’t come in one fell swoop. There are several factors that, when combined, make you the top dog.
Power Dressing FAQ
What is power dressing?
Power dressing is dressing on purpose to project authority and competence: dark, well-fitted tailoring, very little flash, and quality details. The goal is for people to take you seriously before you’ve said a word.
What color suit looks the most powerful?
Navy and charcoal. Both read as serious in any business setting, and both flatter most complexions. Black is for evening – in daytime business it can come off aggressive or funereal.
Can you look powerful without a suit?
Yes. Structure, fit and a dark, simple palette do most of the work. A tailored sport coat, dark trousers, leather shoes and one quality accessory will outrank a sloppy suit.
Is dressing like an alpha male about looking intimidating?
No. The men who really run the room don’t need to scare anybody. Power reads as calm, clean and in control – intimidation usually reads as insecurity with a gym membership. Dress well, then earn respect with how you carry yourself.
Click below to watch 10 POWERFUL Ways To INSTANTLY Improve Your Appearance:
The post How To Dress Like A Powerful Man appeared first on Real Men Real Style.