Ariana Madix’s BFF Jared Lipscomb revealed the texts Tom Sandoval allegedly sent him after he slammed the bar owner for making an insensitive joke about cancer.
“’Jared, I absolutely did not mean to offend you or anyone else, for that matter,”’ the screenwriter — who was diagnosed with leukemia in 2019 — read on Kristen Doute’s “Sex, Love and What Else Matters” podcast Wednesday, claiming that Sandoval was “starting off with just no apology.”
‘”That was not a joke about cancer,’” he continued reading. “‘I’ve lost family members to cancer. I’ve been nothing but supportive through your battle and journey, have I not?’”
Lipscomb claimed the “Vanderpump Rules” star, 40, maintained that he “was simply giving an example” of a situation where the lyrics to Kelly Clarkson’s “Stronger” song don’t apply.
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“’This is also why we can’t travel to outer space or live on the moon,” he continued reading. “‘It’s too much radiation. Can I get a little bit of benefit of the doubt here? You know me a little bit better than that. Hope you’re doing well. Heart emoji.’”
Doute — who dated Sandoval before he moved on with Madix — accused her ex of “gaslighting” Lipscomb in the texts, but the makeup artist made sure the TomTom co-founder could no longer contact him.
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“I have never blocked someone so fast in my life. … Like, what is happening?” Lipscomb said. “If he’s able to do that to me just for one thing he’s upset about … all he had to say was, ‘I’m so sorry that I misspoke.’”
More than two weeks ago, Sandoval appeared on the “Howie Mandel Does Stuff” podcast to talk about his scandalous affair with “Vanderpump Rules” co-star Raquel Leviss.
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“What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger,” Howie Mandel told Sandoval, to which the reality star quipped, “Like radiation.”
The Tom Sandoval & The Most Extras frontman immediately tried to rectify the situation, calling his remark a “bad joke.”
After Lipscomb got wind of his comments, he posted a scathing video on Instagram addressing his bestie’s ex.
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“My blood is boiling, what a f–king coward, how dare he?” he said in the clip. “I don’t care if it’s a joke in poor taste. F–k you. You are weak to compare what people go through in radiation during treatment … you are scum.”
Lipscomb then shared that he had been through a dozen rounds of radiation and “thought that was going to kill me.”
“I am so disgusted by this video and his little quip … I can’t even believe I considered you a friend. F–k you.”
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Things for Sandoval have not been going so well after Madix, 38, caught him having an affair with Leviss, 28.
The actress called it quits with her boyfriend of nearly a decade after finding an explicit video of the former beauty pageant queen on Sandoval’s phone.
“Vanderpump Rules” airs Wednesdays at 9 p.m. ET on Bravo.